Prepare yourself for marriage Here’s some ways you can do that: Have married men in your life. – I spend a lot – a lot! – of time with my married friends. And those women teach me more than I could ever learn without them. I watch them, I ask questions and I learn tons [...]
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2 Feb
How to get a Girl: Tip 9
Facebook is not your wingman. If your primary way of hitting on girls is via facebook or text message, you are a pansy. Draw yourself a nice, warm bubble bath and put on Enya while you consider a new hobby because you’re going to be single awhile. Either that, or you’ll find yourself with weak-willed [...]
4 Jan
How to Get a Girl: Tip 8
Every man for himself. So you know you “code” that says you won’t scam on the girl your buddy is interested in? The BBH rule? It is stupid. If there is a girl you are interested in, it shouldn’t matter if another guy has expressed interest in her, previously dated her or even if she [...]
30 Nov
How to Get a Girl: Tip 7
It’s not an interview. I’m going off my friend’s experience here – not my own. But I was talking to a friend last night after a party with a bunch of church-y singles, and she talked about how much she hates it when she feels like a guy’s interrogating her on a date or even [...]
19 Nov
How to Get a Girl: Tip 6
Romance is subjective. By that I mean, flowers and a poem are going to mean to one girl what letting her pick the movie and restaurant are going to mean to another. Each girl has her own idea of romance. So get to know your girl. What does she spend her time doing? What makes [...]
18 Nov
How to Get a Girl: Tip 5
A first date does not mean marriage. If you have had your sights on a girl for several weeks or months, have been praying about asking her out, have been seeking counseling about asking her out, have been asking her friends about her, etc – stop stalling you pansy and ask her out already! A [...]
16 Nov
How to Get a Girl: Tip 4
Use your friends. Hopefully you have friends. If not, make some. Once you have some – use them. Here’s the thing, I live in a small town, attend a good-sized church, but one with no single guys, and work with only married people. So, outside of the intentional effort I put into going out to [...]
7 Nov
How to Get a Girl: Tip 3
Cut your hair and get a job. (and this is just my personal preference. Some chicks like shaggy guys – although I’m betting they don’t like freeloading guys) There seems to be a prevailing trend toward a prolonged adolescence these days. I understand that you need to “find yourself” and experience life to the fullest [...]
2 Nov
How To Get A Girl: Tip 2
Tip #2: Lower your standards Now, I’m not saying you don’t want a great girl. I’m not saying you want a girl with poor character or no integrity. I’m just saying, you may be shooting a little high. Here’s how: and this first one’s going to sting a little … 1. You’re not as good [...]
29 Oct
How to Get a Girl
Single Guys, After having several conversations that end in, “maybe he just doesn’t know,” I’ve decided to help you out. Here’s a series of posts with tips on how to get a girl. It’s not as hard as you think Oh, and if you’re one of those guys who just isn’t into dating right now [...]
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